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Deleted User 7/31/2018 5:57 PM
We have other method
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We're pretty good at not making more. I just kinda tell 'em to go away and they will.
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Deleted User 7/31/2018 5:58 PM
If we like a character, one of us roleplay it.
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I'm mean to the walk ins. Then they don't want to live in my head.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:00 PM
We haven't had any walkins yet.
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All three of mine were. Apparently my head is Grand Central Station
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We've had a few try to appear. They never last longer than 5 minutes.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:03 PM
Ashley and I are currently happy with just the two of us, although we think we will get another in a year or two. So the current plan is to kick out any walks we may get (if we do).
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A system of 2 seems much simpler for sure
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:06 PM
Mmmhm
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It's simple. We do want more at some point.
6:06 PM
But we've agreed not to let more in until we get good at just being the two of us.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:07 PM
That's exactly our logic as well.
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That's a solid plan
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bduddy #Diana# 7/31/2018 6:07 PM
same here, pretty much.
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We'll grow some day. Just not any time soon.
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Having 3 is cool. But crowded. We have to have certain days for certain people's and whatnot so that everybody gets a chance it's all fair and everybody's happy
6:09 PM
So I guess I've been trying to please them and just been so much they're pretty much just giving me this week do whatever I want
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Advantages of just being two is that you can 50/50 fronting time.
6:09 PM
We're at 75/25 over the past month here, me having 25% of the time. Pretty solid!
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:09 PM
Nice!
6:10 PM
I'm currently @ 42% today
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Lilly doesn't want to front much. So it's just between trix and sweets.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:11 PM
I actually don't care that much about fronting but it is nice.
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They mostly just come out though anymore when I'm at home.
6:12 PM
No planning or asking just, oh were doing this now huh haha
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:13 PM
Yea, that's what we have been doing except everywhere.
6:13 PM
I'm currently fronting at Ashleys job because why not!
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They don't use my voice. Not the same way I use it. They make it much higher. And it's hard for them to not
6:14 PM
Otherwise same. When I'm alone anyway
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:15 PM
My voice is a bit different. I've managed to hide it decently. My body language is quite different however. I don't think anyone has noticed though.
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bduddy #Diana# 7/31/2018 6:16 PM
Diana has a different voice and body language but can also just do mine.
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The only time it was a little worrying when we didn't realize the kid walked in the room and asked why my voice was so much different.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:17 PM
I actually have about the same voice as Ashley normally, but she's not out at work and has to use her old voice there.
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Sweetie is trying. She does a passable job. Trixie absolutely refuses to try
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:18 PM
It's really hard to remember to always do it.
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Sweetie/ or when the kid walks up behind you and starts asking you questions while you're playing Minecraft.... you either learn to imitate or you just point and grunt
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:20 PM
Lol
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The wife always knows though
6:21 PM
Just through body language. She can't tell the difference between them still. But she knows when it isn't me
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:22 PM
My boyfriend doesen't notice as long as I can sit still (I have problems not constantly moving).
6:23 PM
We're you planing on telling your kid at some point?
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No idea. She's only 7. So not at least until she is old enough to undeestsnd
6:24 PM
But even then maybe not.
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wait
6:25 PM
You have a wife, kids and tulpa?
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Yeah.
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but why
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:25 PM
Implying only socially disfunctional hosts exist
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It wasn't my choice they just showed up one day
6:26 PM
I mean there is a bit more to it than that but that's essentially what happened I didn't even know tulpa existed
6:27 PM
It was shortly after my kid was born
6:27 PM
7-9months or so don't really remember
6:28 PM
shrug takes all kinds I guess
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Interesting
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what a lucky bastard
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To be perfectly blunt and honest it didn't go well at all at first I was convinced I was going insane my wife wasn't too far off of there though she wasn't my wife at the time. But I think I've actually got a handle on things now
6:33 PM
Things worked out for the best really. Kept my job( still unsure how I actually managed to do that but I did) now I'm in a much better spot in the same company. 7ish years down the road. I can't complain too much
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And how do your wife feel about this at the moment?
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She's fine with it. Took a bit of getting used to but she said she would be bored with someone normal now
6:35 PM
She initially had a pretty big problem with it because her ex-husband had schizophrenia refused to take his meds with it use that as an excuse to do awful things and eventually just tried treating it using methamphetamine
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:35 PM
Things have been a tad rough between Ashley and her boyfriend since I showed up. But he seems ok with it now. Hopefully it works out as well as you Scythe. I'd hate to be responsible for breaking them up.
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But once we got past that and she saw that I wasn't going to be doing the same crap things got a lot better
6:38 PM
I hope so too @💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna}
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oh fuckin lord
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:38 PM
What?
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Good luck
6:39 PM
Side note, the idea of fronting is scarry
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People make it seem a lot different than it actually is
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:39 PM
Thanks. (Actually I'd probably try dissapating myself if it came to it. They are too perfect for each other. But I REALLY doubt it would ever come to that. )
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Would you seriously?
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:40 PM
For Ashley? I'm going to do anything and everything possible to make her as happy S possible.
6:40 PM
As much as I LOVE existing, I love her more.
6:41 PM
I know I wouldn't kill myself for something like that.
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Mine left around 2 and a half years ago because of some of that crap that was mentioned thinking things would be better. Long story short, it wasn't and they came back.
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:41 PM
To be honest that's probably how it would go. Lol.
6:42 PM
I also of course wouldn't do it with out her permission, which I doubt she would even give.
6:43 PM
But I know my purpose in life. That was clear fairly early on.
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Trixie/ I will never understand any tulpa that doesn't want to put their host first.
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... interesting
6:45 PM
Incredibly interesting
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Sorry
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:45 PM
I can. Some hosts are terrible to their head mates. I wouldn't blame them too much if they decided to put their system first. But Ashley's not like that.
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Trixie/ I guess only having him to compare with narrows my vision in that regard
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:47 PM
Also, I wouldn't blame any one for not wanting to dissapate themselves. That is arguably absurdly extreme.
6:47 PM
Self preservation as an increadabky strong instinct.
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And you don't need to apologize @Rabz12 it's a public board for a reason
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:49 PM
Why am I talking about such sad & crazy things? I need to get back to my usual MO of spreading cheer everywhere I go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!😸😸
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Well I need to apolagize because if the only comment I have is 'interesting' it dehumanizes the situation a bit?
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Not at all. Why should it?
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:53 PM
I wasn't bothered by it.
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A break in the gloom if nothing else. Those weren't exactly happy subjects for the most part (edited)
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💜 Hibiki 💜 & {Luna} 7/31/2018 6:54 PM
Do you have any tips for Ashley? Any pitfalls to avoid etc...
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We are here. To put to rest any of my doubts and crap about all this. And to talk with others about it. You have no idea how hard of a time I was having with all this at first.
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I have a very good idea
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Oh like what to do what not to do? Not really. If they already know about the switching thing and everything, I can understand why some people might be bothered knowing their significant other isn't themselves every once in a while. Or more often (edited)
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The reason I'm here is becasue a friend accidentally created one and confided in me
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The only real issue my wife had was likening it to her ex husbands condition. And his condition was mainly that he was a selfish abusive asshole who also happened to be schitzophrenic.
6:58 PM
Once she saw that I was still me. Maybe a bit different or silly, or whatever, but still me. She warmed up to the idea.
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